你是否“疑心病”過重

Your friends borrow money from you. It's the second time this month they've asked and they haven't paid you back for the last time yet. What do you do?

a. Refuse point-blank1). If they haven't already paid up2)， they're unlikely to in the future.

b. Say yes but get the friend to write an IOU3).

c. Say yes; you know they'll pay you back when they can.

You tell a mate a secret and find out she/he has let it out to someone. What do you do?

a. Decide to keep your feelings to yourself in the future.

b. Avoid telling this particular person any more secrets.

c. Make this person understand that next time you confide in him/her 4)， he/she has to keep it to himself/herself.

You're on your way home. Your new neighbor's car pulls up5) to offer you a lift6). What do you do?

a. Refuse straightaway7); you never know what might happen.

b. Call your parents to make sure it's okay.

c. Jump straight in.

Your little brother is always borrowing your stuff...and now you can't find a new DVD. What do you do?

a. Go into your brother's room and start looking for it there.

b. Ask him if he's got it.

c. Just leave it， and you can always watch something else.

Score

Mostly As: 疑心病指數(shù):100%

在別人的印象中，你可能太過于多疑，對他人存有太多的顧忌。想一想，導(dǎo)致你不相信別人的理由都是什么呢?而這些理由又是否都成立呢?有些時候，我們需要少一些猜疑和提防，對周遭的人多一點(diǎn)信心。嘗試著放松你的心防，多給予他人一些信任吧!

Mostly Bs: 疑心病指數(shù):50%

你信賴他人，但絕不盲目;你聰明機(jī)智，不會被別人愚弄或欺騙。你只信任那些你認(rèn)為值得相信的人，而你對他人的期望也始終保持在一種相當(dāng)現(xiàn)實(shí)的層面。

Mostly Cs: 疑心病指數(shù):0

有些人可能會認(rèn)為你容易輕信他人。盡管寬容厚道和完全相信他人似乎是一種良好的品質(zhì)，但是你也有被他人利用的危險(xiǎn)。還是稍微謹(jǐn)慎一些吧!