What They Wish They’d Known as a Teenager 年輕人最想聽精英們談什么

徐舟

1966年《新聞周刊》曾刊登過一篇深度調(diào)查，標(biāo)題是《美國年輕一代究竟啥樣？》。調(diào)查的內(nèi)容從政治、流行文化到年輕人對(duì)父母、自己的未來乃至全世界的看法，不一而足。50年后，該雜志再度刊登了類似調(diào)查，企圖追蹤50年來年輕一代的改變與持守，其結(jié)論是：這代年輕人具有政治意識(shí)，雖對(duì)未來樂觀，但也為美國擔(dān)憂。鑒于此，不同領(lǐng)域的社會(huì)精英們以過來人的身份與這些年輕人分享了他們的處世心得。

“Take some time to disconnect from your devices and connect with yourself—whether thats 20 minutes a day by meditating or leaving your phone in the car on a hike—to allow your mind to have an uninterrupted train of thought， which breeds creativity.”1

—Katy Perry2， pop star

“Know that this is just the beginning. You are finding your feet， voice and identity now， but your growth is far from over. Be patient and work incredibly3 hard. There will be many opportunities if you are open and use all of your resources. However， be careful not to step on people to get to where you want to go.4 The world is a small place， and its nice to know you have presented your best self throughout your journey. Value and appreciate those who have been there to give you advice. It doesnt make you weak to accept advice. Having mentors5 in your life will help you to learn from them and not repeat their mistakes. Theyll help you to be better， smarter and stronger. What the future holds for you is so exciting： Take it on6 and accept the challenges with care and strength. Know that we want the world to be a better place and you hold the power to make it so.”

—Misty Copeland， principal dancer at American Ballet Theatre7

“It seems unavoidable that you will develop some kind of paralyzing insecurity in your teens.8 It happens to everyone—everyone—and， commonly， it carries over into adulthood. These insecurities will hold you back in every aspect of your life， so be brave and talk to someone about it. It really helps. Or maybe stop following Kendall and Kylie on Instagram.9 Constantly comparing yourself to others is no way to live， and I hope you find that out sooner than I did. Also， sleep in as much as you can.”

—Nikki Glaser， comedian and star of Comedy Centrals Not Safe10

“Solve the hard problems. This year， Melinda and I addressed our Annual Letter to high school students， because youre the ones who will ultimately be solving the problems that keep the world from being a more equitable place.11 Imagine life without energy： no electricity， gasoline12 or any other source. Thats what life is like for about 1.3 billion people—18 percent of the worlds population. Theyre stuck in the dark， denied all of the benefits and opportunities that come with power. If we really want to help the worlds poorest families， we need to find a way to get them cheap， clean energy. Cheap， because everyone must be able to afford it. Clean， because it must not emit any carbon dioxide，13 which is driving climate change. （In 2015， the world emitted 36 billion tons of carbon dioxide.） Todays clean-energy technology holds a lot of promise， but to cut our emissions to near zero and make energy affordable for everyone， were also going to need some new inventions.14 Many young people are already actively involved in climate and energy issues， and Im sure they could use more help. Your generation is one of the most globally minded in history， adept at looking at our worlds problems beyond national borders.15 This will be a valuable asset16 as we work on global solutions in the decades ahead. If youre someone with some crazy-sounding ideas to solve our energy challenge， the world needs you. Study extra hard in math and science. You might just have the answer.”

—Bill Gates17， Microsoft co-founder and co-chair of the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation

“If you ever find yourself asking whether you should speak up or quiet down， the answer is speak up. That doesnt mean you have to be loud if youre not a loud person； it just means that your ideas matter and the world will be better if you find an authentic way to share them.18 Every year， Bill and I write a letter about issues that are important to us， and this year I wrote a lot about the power of cultural norms19—those unwritten rules that say things like what it means to ‘a(chǎn)ct like a girl or ‘be a man. The problem is， norms are so normal that most people cant even see them. For example， you probably dont realize that girls do many more chores20 than boys do. The best way to get over harmful norms is to look at the world with new eyes and talk to as many people as you can about what you notice. If enough people start questioning why certain things are the way they are， then theres a chance they will change. I know theres a lot of chatter21 these days about how social media is affecting teenagers—some people think your screens are making you less engaged in the real world—but I believe you have something serious to say， and youre lucky that you have so many ways to tell anyone in the world whats on your mind. Please， let your voice be part of the conversation.”

—Melinda Gates， co-chair of the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation

“The best piece of advice I can offer is to not be afraid to fail. When people think of me， they think of championships and winning， but behind all of that was a lot of hard work and trying and failing. No one gets everything right the first time. By working hard and learning from your failures， you come out stronger and smarter in the end.”

—Michael Jordan22， basketball star

“When I think of my middle school years， I just remember them being so crazy and so confusing. It was hard for you to look past your school hallways23. You feel that is your entire world， because at that time it is your entire world. But just know that there is a bigger， more beautiful world out there. Keep your head up and know it is a beautiful world we live in and things will get better. Dont be a bystander24. If you see someone getting hurt or getting picked on25， if you see someone eating alone at school， go sit down next to them and introduce yourself.”

—Aaron Paul26， actor

“As human beings， consistency27 is our toughest challenge. To be the same person every day， to be better every day or to evolve into a different person. Consistency is the foundation for all. Be consistent！ The Earth has done it—for 4.5 billion years， to be exact！”

—Von Miller， Super Bowl 50 MVP28

1. meditate： 深思，冥想；hike： 徒步旅行，遠(yuǎn)足； uninterrupted： 不中斷的，連續(xù)不斷的；breed： 孕育，導(dǎo)致。

2. Katy Perry： 凱蒂·佩里，美國流行女歌手、演員兼詞曲創(chuàng)作者。

3. incredibly： 非常，極其。

4. 但一定要當(dāng)心，不要靠踩著他人來達(dá)到自己的目的。

5. mentor： 賢明的顧問，導(dǎo)師。

6. take on： 開始處理，承擔(dān)。

7. Misty Copeland： 米斯蒂·科普蘭，美國芭蕾舞演員，17歲她進(jìn)入著名的美國芭蕾舞劇院，成為ABT歷史上第三位非裔芭蕾獨(dú)舞；principal dancer： 首席舞蹈演員。

8. paralyzing： 使癱瘓的；insecurity： 不安全感。

9. Kendall and Kylie： 指卡戴珊家族的兩姐妹肯達(dá)爾·詹娜（Kendall Jenner）和凱莉·詹娜（Kylie Jenner），兩人都是名模和演員；Instagram： 一款圖片分享應(yīng)用軟件。

10. Nikki Glaser： 妮可·格雷瑟，美國喜劇演員、播客主持；comedian： 喜劇演員；Comedy Central： 美國喜劇中心頻道，熱門節(jié)目包括《南方公園》等。

11. 今年，我和梅琳達(dá)寫完了給高中生的年度公開信，因?yàn)槟銈兪亲罱K的問題解決者，而這些問題若不得到解決，世界將永遠(yuǎn)實(shí)現(xiàn)不了公平與公正。Melinda： 梅琳達(dá)·蓋茨（Melinda Gates），比爾·蓋茨的妻子，她和蓋茨一起建立了美國有史以來最大的基金會(huì)——蓋茨基金會(huì)，并擔(dān)任主席；equitable： 公平的，公正的。

12. gasoline： 汽油。

13. emit： 排放；carbon dioxide： 二氧化碳。

14. 如今，清潔能源技術(shù)讓人們看到了大量希望，但要使二氧化碳的排放接近零并且讓每個(gè)人都負(fù)擔(dān)得起能源，我們還需要不斷開發(fā)新技術(shù)。promise： 前途，希望。

15. 縱觀歷史，你們這一代是最有全球意識(shí)的一撥人，能夠超越國界地看待發(fā)生在我們這個(gè)世界的問題。be adept at： 熟練于……。

16. asset： 優(yōu)點(diǎn)，有價(jià)值的人或物。

17. Bill Gates： 比爾·蓋茨，微軟公司創(chuàng)始人。

18. a loud person： 一個(gè)張揚(yáng)、高調(diào)的人；authentic： 真實(shí)的，可信的。

19. norm： 標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，規(guī)范。

20. chore： 雜務(wù)，困難的工作。

21. chatter： 喋喋不休，嘮叨。

22. Michael Jordan： 邁克爾·喬丹，美國著名籃球運(yùn)動(dòng)員。

23. hallway： 走廊，門廳。

24. bystander： 旁觀者。

25. get picked on： 被欺負(fù)。

26. Aaron Paul： 亞倫·保爾，美國影視演員，因出演美劇《絕命毒師》中的杰西·平克曼而走紅。

27. consistency： 一致性，持之以恒。

28. Von Miller： 馮·米勒，是美國國家橄欖球聯(lián)盟（NFL）丹佛野馬隊(duì)的線衛(wèi)；Super Bowl 50： 第50屆超級(jí)碗，是NFL2015賽季美式橄欖球聯(lián)賽冠軍爭奪戰(zhàn)；MVP： 即Most Valuable Player，最優(yōu)秀選手。