上高中時(shí)，我要知道這些就好了

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Stretch1） your brain. Take a class that scares you at least once during high school. Dont let preconceptions2） about the class or the teacher sway3） you from taking a class that you know you can do well in. The experience will definitely make you a stronger student and prepare you for future academic challenges. If you can face those challenges and enjoy them， you will succeed.

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Dont sweat4） your grades too much. Getting a B is not the end of the world. In fact， its kind of a good thing. I started college at a top university with straight As since seventh grade， and it was hard to deal with not being able to repeat that. I shied away5） from taking some harder courses I might have done well in because I was afraid of doing poorly. Now， I can fully accept that if I try my hardest in a class and get a B+； that is still something to be proud of.

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Ask for help. Learn how to forge6） relationships with teachers. Ask for help on a concept youre trying to grasp after class； meet with your English teacher to talk about an upcoming essay. Getting comfortable with talking to teachers will help when you get to college. You will need help outside of class sometimes， and you have to be able to ask for it and interact with your professors.

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Find your own de-stressing7） routine. Another essential skill to begin building in high school is how to manage work and stress. Maybe you deal with stress by going for a run， or taking a break to watch a silly sitcom. Talk with a friend for a while or play with your dog. Find out what relaxes you and take short breaks from amounts of work that seem unmanageable to de-stress. Youll find that it will be easily manageable.

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Spend your summers wisely. Dont take on a full-time job the first summer you decide to work—forty hours a week will be a huge shock and youll have plenty of time for that in the future. Do find something to do that will make the ten weeks worthwhile. Look for programs that take you to interesting places， internships that will be good experience， or a job that will give you insight into something you might be interested in.

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Dont focus too much on popularity. While the idea of the clique8） is definitely high school specific， there are still loose9） groups in college. Fortunately these are not based on the vague10） idea of "popularity" and instead on things you actually have in common—your fraternity11） or sorority12）， where you live， classes， sports， clubs and activities. You do have to be active about making friends， especially at a larger school， but those friends may be much more of a reflection of your values than kids you hung out with in high school because they were your group. Everyone wants to be popular in high school， but dont waste too much time worrying about it. In four years， youll be in a completely new situation， and no one will care what clique you were in high school.

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Join a（n） club/team/activity. Extracurriculars13） are what make your time in high school worthwhile. A lot of what you learn you will forget or have to learn again in college， but the experience of being on a team or president of a club or writing for the newspaper is what you will remember. Youll learn a whole lot about dealing with others， and about yourself and your own limits.

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Accept that you may get rejected. Just because you dont get into your "top choice" college doesnt mean you wont have a completely fulfilling experience. Just make sure you try to make the most of it.

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青春話題·成長(zhǎng)之惑

Sometimes high school seems like a necessary evil， which steps between elementary school and college. I remember feeling like I was just ready to finish studying and that was only the beginning of sophomore year. Now at the end of my college journey， I know that while I did well in high school， there are some things in particular that made high school and college easier for me. And there are still more things I could have done to make my high school experience more fun， more manageable and more beneficial.

有時(shí)候，高中就像一個(gè)躲不開(kāi)的惡魔，橫亙?cè)谛W(xué)與大學(xué)之間。我記得那時(shí)感覺(jué)自己都準(zhǔn)備好完成高中學(xué)業(yè)了，可其實(shí)高中二年級(jí)才剛剛開(kāi)始。現(xiàn)在我的大學(xué)生涯已接近尾聲，我開(kāi)始明白，雖然我在高中階段表現(xiàn)優(yōu)異，但還有一些尤為重要的事情能讓我的高中和大學(xué)過(guò)得更為輕松。我本來(lái)還可以做更多的事情，讓我的高中生活更有趣，更可控，更讓自己受益。

充分發(fā)揮你的聰明才智。高中時(shí)至少上一門(mén)令你害怕的課程。別讓對(duì)課程或授課老師的成見(jiàn)影響你去上一門(mén)明知自己能學(xué)好的課程。這種經(jīng)歷將必然讓你成為一名更強(qiáng)的學(xué)生，也能助你做好準(zhǔn)備去迎接未來(lái)的學(xué)業(yè)挑戰(zhàn)。如果你能直面那些挑戰(zhàn)并樂(lè)在其中，你就會(huì)取得成功。

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不要為了分?jǐn)?shù)過(guò)度擔(dān)心。得到一個(gè)B并不意味著世界末日的到來(lái)。事實(shí)上，這在某種程度上也是件好事。我從七年級(jí)開(kāi)始成績(jī)就一直全優(yōu)，并以這樣的成績(jī)上了一所頂級(jí)大學(xué)，因此如果不能重現(xiàn)那樣的成績(jī)，我就會(huì)很難接受。為此我不再選修一些比較難但我也可能會(huì)學(xué)好的課程，因?yàn)楹ε鲁煽?jī)不好。現(xiàn)在，我完全能夠接受以下這種看法：如果我在課堂上全力以赴，即使得了B+，那也仍是件值得驕傲的事情。

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尋求幫助。學(xué)會(huì)與老師建立聯(lián)系。若你在努力掌握某個(gè)概念，就在課后去尋求幫助吧；你還可以去找你的英語(yǔ)老師，聊一下即將要寫(xiě)的論文。如果能夠與老師們輕松自在地交談，這對(duì)你上大學(xué)之后有好處。屆時(shí)你時(shí)不時(shí)地會(huì)在課外需要幫助，并且你必須有能力去尋求幫助，有能力與你的教授們交流。

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找到你自己的常規(guī)減壓方式。在高中階段要開(kāi)始打造的另一個(gè)必備技能就是學(xué)會(huì)如何處理學(xué)業(yè)和壓力?；蛟S，你應(yīng)對(duì)壓力的方法是出去跑步，或看無(wú)厘頭情景喜劇休息一下。去和一個(gè)朋友談會(huì)兒心，或和你的小狗玩兒。找到讓你放松的方法，從看似難以應(yīng)對(duì)的繁重學(xué)業(yè)中抽出身來(lái)，暫時(shí)休息一會(huì)兒，給自己減壓。你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的學(xué)業(yè)變得更容易搞定。

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明智地度過(guò)你的暑假。在你決定出去打工的第一個(gè)暑假，不要去找全職工作——每周工作40個(gè)小時(shí)對(duì)你將是個(gè)巨大的沖擊，而且將來(lái)你會(huì)有大把時(shí)間去做全職工作。一定要做一些能讓這十周的假期變得有意義的事情。找一些能把你帶到有趣地方的項(xiàng)目，一些將讓你擁有很棒經(jīng)歷的實(shí)習(xí)工作，或者找一份能讓你洞悉自己可能感興趣的事情的工作。

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不要太關(guān)注人氣?？v然“小團(tuán)體”無(wú)疑是高中生活的典型現(xiàn)象，但大學(xué)里也有很多自由度很高的組織。幸運(yùn)的是，這些組織并非基于“人氣”這種模糊的概念，而是基于你們實(shí)際擁有的共同特點(diǎn)——你們參加的兄弟會(huì)或女生聯(lián)誼會(huì)，你們的住所、所學(xué)的課程、從事的運(yùn)動(dòng)、加入的社團(tuán)和活動(dòng)等。你的確需要積極地交朋友，特別是在規(guī)模較大的學(xué)校里。但那些朋友更多的是你自身價(jià)值觀的體現(xiàn)，而不是高中時(shí)因?yàn)橥谝粋€(gè)小團(tuán)體而和你出去玩的那些孩子。每個(gè)人都希望在高中擁有高人氣，但不要浪費(fèi)太多時(shí)間擔(dān)憂這個(gè)。四年后（編注：美國(guó)高中為四年制），你將身處一個(gè)全新的環(huán)境，沒(méi)有人會(huì)在意你高中時(shí)屬于哪個(gè)小團(tuán)體。

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加入一個(gè)社團(tuán)/小組/活動(dòng)。課外活動(dòng)會(huì)讓你的高中時(shí)光過(guò)得有價(jià)值。你學(xué)的很多知識(shí)都會(huì)被遺忘或者還得在大學(xué)重學(xué)一遍，但是參加小組活動(dòng)、做一個(gè)社團(tuán)的團(tuán)長(zhǎng)或?yàn)閳?bào)紙撰寫(xiě)文章將會(huì)成為你難忘的經(jīng)歷。你會(huì)了解到很多關(guān)于待人接物、關(guān)于自身以及自身局限性的東西。

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要接受你可能會(huì)被大學(xué)拒絕錄取的事實(shí)。你沒(méi)有被“第一志愿”大學(xué)錄取并不意味著你不會(huì)擁有完整、充實(shí)的大學(xué)經(jīng)歷。你只需確保自己全力以赴即可。

1. stretch [stret?] vt. 使充分發(fā)揮；使竭盡所能

2. preconception [?pri?k?n?sep?n] n. 事先形成的看法；先入之見(jiàn)；成見(jiàn)

3. sway [swe?] vt. 影響；左右；使改變看法

4. sweat [swet] vt. 為……擔(dān)心（或煩惱）

5. shy away： 避開(kāi)；回避

6. forge [f??d?] vt. 締造；建立

7. de-stress [?di? ?stres] vi. 放松，減輕壓力

Finally， remember to have fun. Your life does not depend on high school—not on the academics and not on the popularity aspect. Do your best， but leave time for fun with friends. You will have plenty of time to work hard in college and beyond. Be prepared， but dont stress out too much about it. If you can make your high school experience fun， you will have no problem doing the same for your life in college and beyond.

最后，記得要開(kāi)心。決定你人生的并不是高中時(shí)光——不是你在高中的學(xué)業(yè)表現(xiàn)，也不是你在高中時(shí)的人氣值。要全力以赴，但同時(shí)也要留出時(shí)間與朋友共享歡樂(lè)。在大學(xué)和以后的日子里，你還會(huì)有大把的時(shí)間去努力奮斗。做好準(zhǔn)備，但也不要對(duì)此感到過(guò)分緊張。如果你能讓自己的高中生活充滿歡樂(lè)，那么在大學(xué)和以后的日子里，做到這一點(diǎn)就更沒(méi)問(wèn)題了。

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青春話題·成長(zhǎng)之惑

8. clique [kli?k] n. 派系；小集團(tuán)

9. loose [lu?s] adj. （分組、安排、組織等）不嚴(yán)密的；松散的

10. vague [ve?ɡ] adj. （記憶或想法）模糊的，不清晰的

11. fraternity [fr??t??n?ti] n. （美國(guó)男大學(xué)生）聯(lián)誼會(huì)，兄弟會(huì)

12. sorority [s??r?r?ti] n. （美國(guó)大學(xué)里的）女子聯(lián)誼會(huì)，女子俱樂(lè)部

13. extracurricular [?ekstr?k??r?kj?l?（r）] n. 課外活動(dòng)