生活中，挫折在所難免，什么事都可能隨時(shí)發(fā)生，唯有自信十足的人才能夠勇敢而坦然地去面對。怎樣才能做到不無端地懷疑自己，走出困惑的泥潭？別讓以下這15件負(fù)面消極的事情消耗你寶貴的時(shí)間，相信你也可以成為一個(gè)自信十足的人。

Highly confident people believe in their ability to achieve. If you dont believe in yourself， why should anyone else put their faith in you？ To walk with swagger and improve your self-confldence， watch out for these fifteen things highly confident people dont do.

自信十足的人相信自己的實(shí)力，一定會取得成功。如果連你自己都不信任自己，別人憑什么對你托付信任呢？想昂首闊步，提升自信嗎？一起來看看15件自信十足的人從不會做的事情吧！

1. They Dont Make Excuses

從不找借口

Highly confident people take ownership of their thoughts and actions. They dont blame the traffic for being tardy at work; they were late. They dont excuse their shortcomings with excuses like“I dont have the time.” or“Im just not good enough.”; they make the time and they keep on improving until they are good enough.

自信十足的人會對自己的思想和行為負(fù)責(zé)。他們不會把上班遲到歸咎于交通堵塞——遲到就是遲到。他們也不會用“我沒有時(shí)間”或者“我不夠優(yōu)秀”來原諒自身的不足——他們會擠出時(shí)間，并不斷提高自己直至足夠滿意。

2. They Dont Avoid Doing the Scary Thing

從不回避令人恐懼的事

Highly confident people dont let fear dominate their lives. They know that the things they are afraid of doing are often the very same things that they need to do in order to evolve into the person they are meant to be.

自信十足的人不會讓恐懼支配他們的生活。因?yàn)樗麄兦宄麄儾桓胰プ龅氖虑?，往往就是想要成為理想中的人而必須去做的事情?/p>

3. They Dont Live in a Bubble of Comfort

從不生活在泡沫般的舒適中

Highly confident people avoid the comfort zone， because they know this is a place where dreams die. They actively pursue a feeling of discomfort， because they know stretching themselves is mandatory for their success.

自信十足的人往往避免進(jìn)入舒適地帶，因?yàn)樗麄冎缐粝雽⒈欢髿⒂诖恕Ｋ麄兎e極追求一種不舒適的感覺，因?yàn)樗麄冎酪氤晒?，必須要盡最大的努力。

4. They Dont Put Things off Until Next Week

從不把任務(wù)拖到下周

Highly confident people know that a good plan executed today is better than a great plan executed someday. They dont wait for the“right time”or the“right circumstances”， because they know these reactions are based on a fear of change. They take action here， now， today because thats where progress happens.

自信十足的人知道，一個(gè)能在今天執(zhí)行的較好計(jì)劃，勝過一個(gè)將來才能執(zhí)行的偉大計(jì)劃。他們不去等“恰當(dāng)?shù)臅r(shí)機(jī)”或者“恰當(dāng)?shù)木硾r”，因?yàn)樗麄冎肋@些反應(yīng)是對變化的恐懼。他們就在這里、現(xiàn)在、今天采取行動——因?yàn)橹挥凶龅竭@一點(diǎn)才會進(jìn)步。

5. They Dont Obsess Over the Opinions of Others

從不為他人的看法耿耿于懷

Highly confident people dont get caught up in negative feedback. While they do care about the well being of others and aim to make a positive impact in the world， they dont get caught up in negative opinions that they cant do anything about. They know that their true friends will accept them as they are， and they dont concem themselves with the rest.

自信十足的人不會陷入負(fù)面的反饋。盡管他們的確關(guān)注其他人的幸福安康，并致力于對世界產(chǎn)生積極的影響，但他們并不會陷入那些他們認(rèn)為對此無能為力的負(fù)面看法中。他們知道，真正的朋友會接受他們的現(xiàn)狀，至于其他人的想法，他們并不在意。

6. They Dont Judge People

從不妄議他人長短

Highly confident people have no tolerance for unnecessary， self-inflicted drama. They dont feel the need to insult fnends behind their backs， participate in gossip about fellow co-workers or lash out at folks with different opinions. They are so comfortable in who they are that they feel no need to look down on other people.

自信十足的人不會容忍沒必要的、自找的鬧劇;在背后侮辱朋友，傳播同事的流言蜚語，或?qū)Τ植煌^點(diǎn)的人大肆抨擊，因?yàn)樗麄兒芟硎茏约旱臓顩r，沒必要去蔑視他人。

7. They Dont Let Lack of Resources Stop Them

從不受阻于資源不足

Highly confident people can make use of whatever resources they have， no matter how big or small. They know that all things are possible with creativity and a refusal to quit. They dont agonize over setbacks， but rather focus on finding a solution.

自信十足的人能夠?qū)λ鶕碛械娜魏钨Y源物盡其用，無論多少。因?yàn)樗麄冎溃朴脛?chuàng)意，拒絕放棄，可以將一切都變得可能。他們不會因挫折而自怨自艾，而是專注于尋找解決之道。

8. They Dont Make Comparisons

從不盲目攀比

Highly confident people know that they are not competing with any other person. They compete with no other individual except the person they were yesterday. They know that every person is Iiving a story so unique that drawing compansons would be an absurd and simplistic exercise in futility.

自信十足的人知道他們并不是在和其他任何人競爭——他們的對手從來不是別人，而是昨天的自己。他們也知道，每個(gè)人的生活都是獨(dú)一無二的，所以盲目比較只是荒謬而單純的徒勞。

9. They Dont Find Joy in People-pleasing

從不以取悅他人為樂

Highly confident people have no interest in pleasing every person they meet. They are aware that not all people get along， and thats just how life works. They focus on the quality of their relationships， instead of the quantity of them.

自信十足的人沒興趣去取悅遇到的每一個(gè)人。他們很清楚，并非所有人都能相知相交——人生就是這樣。所以，他們看中與他人關(guān)系的質(zhì)量，而非數(shù)量。

10. They Dont Need Constant Reassurance

從不依賴持續(xù)的安慰

Highly confident people arent in need of handholding. They know that life isnt fair and things wont always go their way. While they cant control every event in their life， they focus on their power to react in a positive way that moves them forward.

自信十足的人不需要關(guān)懷備至。他們知道人生是不公平的，事情的發(fā)展也并非總是如他們所愿。盡管他們無法掌控生活中的每件事，但他們會集中力量積極應(yīng)對，讓自己不斷前進(jìn)。

11. They Dont Avoid Lifes“Inconvenient Truths”

從不回避人生中“不方便的真相”

Highly confident people confront lifes issues at the root before the disease can spread any farther. They know that problems left unaddressed have a way of multiplying as the days， weeks and months go by. They would rather have an un-comfortable conversation with their partner today than sweep an inconvenient truth under the rug， putting trust at risk.

自信十足的人往往從根源入手，直面人生中的難題，而不是等到后果擴(kuò)散地更遠(yuǎn)而再去應(yīng)對。他們知道，如果放任問題不去處理，它們就會隨著每天、每周、每月的積累而擴(kuò)大。他們寧愿就在今天與合伙人進(jìn)行一次尷尬的對話，也不愿冒著失去信任的危險(xiǎn)，掩蓋這個(gè)“不方便的真相”。

12. They Dont Quit Because of Minor Set-backs

從不因微不足道的挫折而放棄

Highly confident people get back up every time they fall down. They know that failure is an unavoidable part of the growth process. They are like a detective， searching for clues that reveal why this approach didnt work.After modifying their plan， they try again （but better this time）.

每當(dāng)自信十足的人失敗跌倒時(shí)，他們都能重整旗鼓，他們知道失敗是成長之路上不可避免的一部分。他們就像偵探一樣，探尋那些能揭示這個(gè)方法為何行不通的線索。重新調(diào)整方案之后，他們便再次嘗試（但這一次他們會做得更好）。

13. They Dont Require Anyones Permission to Act

從不需要別人的許可

Highly confident people take action without hesitation. Every day， they remind themselves， “If not me， who？”

自信十足的人行動起來絕不拖泥帶水。每天他們都會提醒自己：“舍我其誰？”

14. They Dont Limit Themselves to a Small Toolbox

從不把自己局限在狹小的空間

Highly confident people dont limit themselves to Plan A. They make use of any and all weapons that are at their disposal， relentlessly testing the effectiveness of every approach， until they identify the strategies that offer the most results for the least cost in time and effort.

自信十足的人絕不會把自己限制在單一的計(jì)劃上。他們會利用手頭上的所有“武器”，不懈地試驗(yàn)每種方法的有效性，直到識別出那種用時(shí)最少、勞動成本最低、產(chǎn)出最大的策略。

15. They Dont Blindly Accept What They Read on the Intemet as“Truth” Without Thinking About It

從不盲目地接受網(wǎng)絡(luò)上所謂的“真相”

Highly confident people dont accept articles on the Internet as truth just because some author“said so”. They look at every how to article from the lens of their unique perspective. They maintain a healthy skepticism， making use of any material that is relevant to their lives， and forgetting about the rest. While articles like this are a fun and interesting thought-exercise， highly confident people know that they are the only person with the power to decide what“confidence”means.

自信十足的人，并不會因?yàn)橐恍┳髡叩恼f辭，就把他們在網(wǎng)上看到的文章認(rèn)定為“真相”。他們會用各自獨(dú)特的視角，來審視每一篇指導(dǎo)性的文章。他們會利用與他們生活相關(guān)的一切資源，并忽略其他，以此來秉持一種健康的懷疑態(tài)度。盡管像這樣的文章是一次有趣的思維訓(xùn)練，但是自信十足的人知道，只有他們才有能力確定“信任”的真正意義。