人的個性會隨著年齡增長而改變嗎？

Between adolescence and adulthood， you go through a host of changes—jobs， regrettable haircuts and relationships that come and go. But what about who you are at your core？ As you grow older， does your personality change？

Personality is the pattern of thoughts， feelings and behaviors unique to a person. People tend to think of personality as fixed. But according to psychologists， thats not how it works. “Personality is a developmental phenomenon. Its not just a static thing that youre stuck with and cant get over，” said Brent Roberts， a psychologist at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign.

Thats not to say that youre a different person each day you wake up. In the short term， change can be nearly imperceptible， Roberts told Live Science. Longitudinal studies， in which researchers survey the personalities of participants regularly over many years， suggest that our personality is actually stable on shorter time scales.

In one study， published in 2000 in the journal Psychological Bulletin， researchers analyzed the results of 152 longitudinal studies on personality， which followed participants ranging in age from childhood to their early 70s. Each of these studies measured trends in the Big Five personality traits. This cluster of traits， which include extroversion， agreeableness， conscientiousness， openness to experience， and neuroticism， are a mainstay of personality research. The researchers found that individuals levels of each personality trait tended to stay consistent within each decade of life.

從青少年到成年，你經(jīng)歷了許多改變——換工作、失敗的發(fā)型和戀情變動。但是你本質(zhì)上是一個什么樣的人呢？隨著年齡增長，你的個性會改變嗎？

個性是一個人特有的思維、感覺和行為模式。人們往往認為個性是固定不變的。但是心理學家表示并非如此。伊利諾伊大學厄巴納-尚佩恩分校的心理學家布倫特·羅伯茨說：“個性是一個發(fā)展的現(xiàn)象。它不是一個一成不變、擺脫不了的靜態(tài)事物。”

這不是說你每天早上醒來都是一個不同的人。羅伯茨在接受生命科學網(wǎng)站采訪時說，短期來看，改變幾乎是察覺不到的。在延續(xù)多年的縱向研究中，研究人員對參與者的個性進行了定期調(diào)查。結(jié)果顯示，實際上我們的個性在較短時間范圍內(nèi)是穩(wěn)定的。

在一項2000年發(fā)表在《心理學公報》期刊上的研究中，研究人員分析了152項對個性的縱向研究，這些研究跟蹤調(diào)查了從幼年到70歲出頭各個年齡段的參與者。每項研究都測評了大五人格的傾向。大五人格特質(zhì)包括外向性、隨和性、責任心、經(jīng)驗開放性和情緒穩(wěn)定性。這些人格特質(zhì)是個性研究的重要基礎。研究人員發(fā)現(xiàn)，個體的大五人格水平在每十年內(nèi)通常是穩(wěn)定的。

That pattern of consistency begins around age 3， and perhaps even earlier， said Brent Donnellan， professor and chair of psychology at Michigan State University. When psychologists study children， they dont measure personality traits in the same way they do for adults. Instead， they look at temperament—the intensity of a persons reactions to the world. We come into the world with unique temperaments， and research suggests that our temperaments as children—for example， whether were easy-going or prone to temper tantrums， eager or more reluctant to approach strangers—correspond to adult personality traits.

Earlier temperament seems to affect later life experience. For example， one 1995 study published in the journal Child Development followed children from the age of 3 until the age of 18. The researchers found that children who were shyer and more withdrawn tended to grow into unhappier teenagers.

But those decades add up. Throughout all those years， our personality is still changing， but slowly， Roberts said. “Its something thats subtle，” he added. You dont notice it on that five- to 10-year time scale， but in the long term， it becomes pronounced. In 1960， psychologists surveyed over 440，000 high school students. The students answered questions about everything from how they reacted to emotional situations to how efficiently they got work done. Fifty years later， researchers tracked down 1，952 of these former students and gave them the same survey. The results， published in 2018 in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology， found that in their 60s， participants scored much higher than they had as teenagers on questions measuring calmness， self-confidence， leadership and social sensitivity.

密歇根州立大學的心理學系主任布倫特·唐納倫教授稱，這種穩(wěn)定模式大約在3歲開始形成，甚至可能更早。心理學家對兒童進行研究時，他們不會像對待成人一樣測評人格，而是會觀察性情，也就是一個人對世界做出反應的強烈程度。我們天生就有各自的性情，研究表明，我們兒時的性情和成人后的個性特質(zhì)有關，比如我們是否隨和或容易發(fā)脾氣，或愿不愿意接觸陌生人。

早年的性情似乎會對以后的生活經(jīng)歷造成影響。舉例而言，1995年發(fā)表在《兒童發(fā)育》期刊上的一項研究對兒童進行了跟蹤調(diào)查，從3歲跟蹤到18歲。研究人員發(fā)現(xiàn)，比較害羞和內(nèi)向的孩子通常會成長為不太快樂的青少年。

但是一個又一個十年會對個性產(chǎn)生影響。羅伯茨稱，我們的個性在這些年間仍然會改變，不過是緩慢地改變。他補充道：“這是微妙的變化?！?年到10年內(nèi)你注意不到，但是長期來看，就很明顯。1960年，心理學家對44萬多名高中生進行了調(diào)查。這些學生回答了各種問題，從對情緒狀況的反應到完成工作的效率。50年后，研究人員跟蹤調(diào)查了當年這些學生中的1952名，并對他們進行了同樣的調(diào)查。這項2018年發(fā)表在《個性與社會心理學期刊》的研究結(jié)果發(fā)現(xiàn)，這些年逾60的參與者在衡量冷靜、自信、領導力和社會敏感度的問卷得分比他們青少年時高得多。

Again and again， longitudinal studies have found similar results. Personality tends to get “better” over time. Psychologists call it “the maturity principle”. People become more extraverted， emotionally stable， agreeable and conscientious as they grow older. In the long term， these changes are often pronounced.

Some individuals might change less than others， but in general， the maturity principle applies to everyone. That makes personality change even harder to recognize in ourselves— how your personality compares with that of your peers doesnt change as much as our overall change in personality， because everyone else is changing right along with you. “Theres good evidence that the average self-control of a 30-year-old is higher than a 20-year-old，” Donnellan said. “At the same time， people who are relatively self-controlled at 18 also tend to be relatively self-controlled at age 30.”

So why do we change so much？ Evidence suggests its not dramatic life events， such as marriage， the birth of a child or loss of a loved one. Some psychologists actually suggest these events reinforce your personality as you bring your characteristics with you to that particular situation， Donnellan said.

Instead， changing expectations placed on us—as we adjust to university， the work force， starting a family—slowly wears us in， Roberts said. “Over time you are asked in many contexts across life to do things a bit differently，” he said. “Theres not a user manual for how to act， but there are very clear implicit norms for how we should behave in these situations.” So we adapt.

各項縱向研究一次又一次地得出了相似的結(jié)果。隨著時間的流逝，人們的性格通常會“變好”。心理學家將其稱之為“成熟法則”。隨著年齡增長，人們變得更外向，情緒更穩(wěn)定，更隨和，也更有責任心。長期來看，這些改變通常很明顯。

一些人的變化可能比其他人少，但總體來看，成熟法則適用于每個人。這使得我們的個性改變更難以被識別。你的個性相比同齡人發(fā)生的改變沒有大家整體的個性改變大，因為每個人的個性都和你一起發(fā)生著改變。唐納倫說：“有充分的證據(jù)表明，30歲的人平均自制力高于20歲的人。與此同時，18歲時自制力相對較強的人到了30歲也往往自制力相對較強?！?/p>

那么為什么我們會改變這么多呢？證據(jù)顯示，我們的個性改變不是因為人生大事，比如結(jié)婚、孩子出生或失去所愛之人。唐納倫稱，一些心理學家指出實際上這些大事會強化你的個性，因為你會將自己的個性帶入到那個特別的情境中。

羅伯茨指出，在我們適應大學、職場和成家時，外界對我們期望值的改變在慢慢地打磨我們。他說：“隨著時間的流逝，人生中的許多情境都會要求你用和以前不一樣的方式去做事。沒有用戶手冊來指導你如何行動，但是有非常清晰的不成文規(guī)范告訴你在這些情況下應該如何表現(xiàn)?！庇谑俏覀兙透淖冏约喝ミm應。

Word Study

static /'st?t?k/ adj. 靜態(tài)的;靜止的

imperceptible /'?mp?'sept?bl/ adj. 感覺不到的;難以察覺的

trait /tre?t/ n. 特點;特性

Honesty proves to be a very important trait of a person.

temperament /'tempr?m?nt/ n. 性情;稟性

Shes a dreamer and a romantic by temperament.

reluctant /r?'l?kt?nt/ adj. 不情愿的;勉強的

He finally gave a reluctant smile.

reinforce /'ri??n'f??s/ v. 加強;充實