Abstract：This article is adapted from If you do not work hard，no one give you the life you want.The writer is called A Round Mass of food.He writer is a music columnist who is a contracted author of Taolu Music.And the writer is a Mayday veteran fan.In this book，the writer wrote about dreams and careers，while the latter two parts are mainly about love stories.The writer has some words.Meeting someone too early and too late，it is not a fate.If you meet someone just right that is the real fate.Love should be a kind of belonging.

Key words：Love;Tamed;Feelings;Boyfriend;Matter

My friend brokenhearted，cried spent makeup.Other friends said that the breakup was good for her.After all，the life purpose of good girl is that treasure own life and away from the cheating philandering feeling of men.I have heard a little bit about how my friend fell in love with the man who cheat and toy with my friend.A man who cheat and toy with my friends affections is very attentive when he pursue my friend.He said good night to my friend every day，he went to see movies with my friend，and went to the supermarket to buy a pile of snacks for my friend.But when my friend messaged him and called him，he almost never replied.When they two people are together，he always looked down to play his mobile phone，but nothing to say.

He never took her to see his friends，when he called my friend occasionally，there were always noisy voices from men and women on the phone.My friend asked him what he was doing，he said that he attended a party.And my friend asked who was into party with him，he said just with some friends to party.My friend asked：“ Are you in the club？” He said：“ they are all my friends.We didnt do any bad things.” My friend felt lost，and she felt that she like a call of spare tire，she was very angry and got to break u with him.But the next day，he held a holding rose in front of my friend：“ darling，do not pissed.” A few sweet words coaxed my friend to round and round.

There was a rain one time，my friend did not take a umbrella，and let her boyfriend to connect her back home.He said：“ I am working over time now，darling，you take a taxi home for yourself.After that，my friend ‘s colleague secretly told my friend：“ I seem to see a girl on your boyfriends car last night......” My friend laughed incredulously：“ that is impossible，you must be wrong.He is obviously working overtime.” The colleague didnt say anything more.

My friend accidentally discovered the news of the scum male and other girl，and got an angry to ask him.He said confidence：“ she just my good friend，you dont think about it，I love you.” One day，he was exposed the bed photos of other girl.It was the girl in the photo who sent it to my friend，and she came the heavy over my friend for status.

My friend was shaking with anger，when her boyfriend called her，she gave him a good scolding.I asked my friend：“ what do you think of him？” My friend said：“ maybe that is a favor from on one.Even if I get lost later，I also greedy for that warmth.” I said：“ Those insignificant nicety is a favor for you？” My friend said：“ Isnt that stupid？” I said：“ you are not the only one who is stupid，I have no right to scold you.” The silly girl is easy to meet，so be tamed easily.The snack he bought for you is that good for you？ He said a word- I love you，is that he like you？ for him，that is the most common thing，but make you to remember his nicety，and hand over your heart.

He gave you a ray of sunshine，you think he gave you the whole day.He sent a star，you think he gave you the whole Milky Way.He gave you a heart，you think he gave you the whole heart.Dont think too much，girl.He can do that to everyone.I quite agree with that girls are eutrophic.If girls have independent material basis，so that they wont bought easily by material.

Does one person love you or not，is that not what he has to give you，but to you most want.One person is very rich，he gives you gold and silver mountain，however，does not give you love and marriage，does he love you？ Girl，dont be such a silly girl！ Dont make yourself so worthless！ You deserve better one and a better life.Girl，only those who love you are worthy of your love，and only those who love you are worth taming you.

作者簡介：

韋秀成，1994年08月08日，女，壯族，籍貫：廣西壯族自治區(qū)來賓市，湖北大學(xué)知行學(xué)院，專業(yè)：英語經(jīng)貿(mào)。

（作者單位：湖北大學(xué)知行學(xué)院）